tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post4417455703419867092..comments2023-11-03T06:05:10.770-04:00Comments on Sprawling Ramshackle Compound: Please remove me from your mailing list.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-14690968739762544772007-03-21T23:44:00.000-04:002007-03-21T23:44:00.000-04:00Famous last words.Famous last words.justacoolcathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13810655507426297986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-20395841145660743272007-03-20T09:31:00.000-04:002007-03-20T09:31:00.000-04:00CP, I take a few deep breaths while I sit in my ca...CP, I take a few deep breaths while I sit in my car in the driveway when I get home, before I come into the house. It's really not bad.<BR/><BR/>Shirmp, I am now officially obsessed with Las Vegas suicide. I looked it up, and Nevada routinely leads the nation in suicide rate, and the rates for Las Vegas are like four times higher than comparable cities. Most cities have a suicide rate (we're talking for visitors) of roughly 1/100 per visitor deaths. Las Vegas is 1/25 suicides per visitor deaths. Whew.<BR/><BR/>mob, if you knew me this could hardly be classified as a grownup job. I'm essentially play-acting at being a grownup, but so far it's working and only a few people have ever caught on to what a fraud I am.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Barbara, there's actually some amusing backstory to this that I didn't write about. After I wrote this I realized it seemed sadder than I meant it to. The girlfriend had cousins to stay with so she didn't have to go back to the condo, and we arranged for a social worker to come and help the family out. Finally, we referred them to a company that specializes in crime and death scene cleanup. I covered up the bloody area of the carpet so they wouldn't see it if they came in for something, and the service will have it cleaned up within a day.<BR/><BR/>Melinda, exactly. The worst was one Thanksgiving about 18 years ago where the guy excused himself from the table and did it with a shotgun in the next room. Happy holidays, huh?!<BR/><BR/>Lulu, it's hard isn't it. I'm sorry about your dad. My dad died almost 10 years ago after a short stay in the hospital. My family has been lucky that we generally seem to go after a brief illness, without a long lingering decline.<BR/><BR/>Dale, thanks!Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09747874295331152779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-49215600708708034772007-03-20T03:53:00.000-04:002007-03-20T03:53:00.000-04:00That is intense Bubs. How do you unwind after wor...That is intense Bubs. How do you unwind after work on days like this?Coaster Punchmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12587366749348273040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-3190070293414095092007-03-20T02:04:00.000-04:002007-03-20T02:04:00.000-04:00I learned somewhere that Las Vegas is the #1 suici...I learned somewhere that Las Vegas is the #1 suicide site not just because it's Vegas, but also because the careful planners want to make sure no loved one finds the body.<BR/><BR/>ShirmpAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-88927027687534946432007-03-19T23:50:00.000-04:002007-03-19T23:50:00.000-04:00Detective Sergeant? I had no idea.Everyone has a ...Detective Sergeant? I had no idea.<BR/><BR/>Everyone has a grown up job except me.Mobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15000570319822563708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-51767355545045038242007-03-19T21:55:00.000-04:002007-03-19T21:55:00.000-04:00I'll bet you can wait to see what tomorrow brings....I'll bet you can wait to see what tomorrow brings.<BR/><BR/>How very sad for the old guy to go out in such a way. Dramatic yes, but how horrible for his girlfriend (and the cleaners).Barbara Bruederlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14476249934930666695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-54046924168995270682007-03-19T16:57:00.000-04:002007-03-19T16:57:00.000-04:00What a moving story, bubs.You're right about gun s...What a moving story, bubs.<BR/><BR/>You're right about gun suicides. There's something extra horrible about them because of the anger, and the horrid aftermath they leave for their loved ones. A guy I knew in college had always been a little nuts, but about a year ago he called his brother and asked him to come over to help him with something, and by the time his brother got there he'd shot himself in the head in his living room. I suppose he was worried about no one finding his body, but how horrible for his brother.Melinda Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05293979989939787353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-52163186530337398632007-03-19T14:05:00.000-04:002007-03-19T14:05:00.000-04:00You know, I read this and immediately thought of m...You know, I read this and immediately thought of my father. Unfortunately, given his deteriorating physical and mental condition, this doesn't seem out of the question, although he doesn't have guns. <BR/><BR/>What was it the Who said "Hope I die before I get old."?luluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06468418041443316689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-78965072906231312092007-03-19T11:46:00.000-04:002007-03-19T11:46:00.000-04:00This type of post and your singular brilliance in ...This type of post and your singular brilliance in the field of narcozoology is exaclty why I'm on your mailing list Bubs. I'd say well executed but you know...Dalehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10769930056412752986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-22851759218302697622007-03-19T11:23:00.000-04:002007-03-19T11:23:00.000-04:00mob, I'd like to be referred to as a pioneering na...mob, I'd like to be referred to as a pioneering narcozoologist, but that hasn't taken off for me yet. I'm known in my other life as a detective sergeant.<BR/><BR/>Johnny, your grandfather sounds like quite a man. Hopefully everyone has enough good memories to lessen the pain of the sad ones.<BR/><BR/>I thought about HST, glad you mentioned him. What bothers me about some gunshot suicides, especially ones like HST's or the guy yesterday, is the "f*ck you" aspect. I understand wanting to have control of your destiny, and wanting to make an exit on your terms, but there's some real anger at doing it in a way that leaves a lasting impression on a loved one.Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09747874295331152779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-18484962698057481692007-03-19T11:16:00.000-04:002007-03-19T11:16:00.000-04:00I can't imagine what we'll all end up losing, and ...I can't imagine what we'll all end up losing, and I can honestly understand choosing the time you want to go if your quality of life is getting to the point that you're simply existing at that age.<BR/><BR/>I don't believe I've ever been aware of what you do for a living Bubs, is there a specific post I should look for, or would you elaborate a bit, please?<BR/><BR/>EMT, coroner, etc?Mobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15000570319822563708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27540291.post-42745790513988783972007-03-19T00:57:00.000-04:002007-03-19T00:57:00.000-04:00Bubs, that is one of the most moving things I have...Bubs, that is one of the most moving things I have ever read. Thank you for sharing it.<BR/><BR/>I think, seriously, of Hunter S. Thompson, how frustrated he must have felt at the end, as he felt his faculties slipping-- he was a brilliant writer. <BR/><BR/>This gentleman must have been very good at what he'd done in his life-- military and whatever else he'd accomplished. Like my grandfather, who also had a rich life of accomplishment-- a man with a fourth grade education, who raised four children, sending two of them to college-- at the end of his life was in constant confusion because of Alzheimer's, dislocated, because of the disease by time, place, and even sometimes people. The gentleman you dealt with must have felt, at the end, that choosing the time of his departure was the last bit of dignity he had left.Johnny Yenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06561248220244037567noreply@blogger.com